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Anniversary Style: Black Lace Dress

Anniversary Style: Black Lace Dress

Culottes, Tunics & Black Lace Dresses Oh My! but I digress...

Do you know your love language? I know we are still in the honeymoon phase since it's our 4th anniversary but my husband has known my love language since before we got married.  Our pre-marital counselor, Pastor Bob, suggested we read “The Five Love Languages” and it was one of the best suggestions ever, you should get it!  We read each chapter together and then discussed it to see how we felt and if we had found the “one”.

Anniversary Style @acheekylifestyle by Val Banderman | Culottes Tunics & Black Lace Dresses Oh My!
 @acheekylifestyle by Val Banderman | Photo: Johnny Davila

@acheekylifestyle by Val Banderman | Photo: Johnny Davila

"We must be willing to learn our spouse's primary love language if we are to be effective communicators of love" ― Gary Chapman
 For Love & Lemons  Halter Bralette  &  High Waist Skivvies

My primary love language is “Quality Time” but I also love “Receiving Gifts”, I love Surprises! For our Anniversary I got the best of both! My husband David who usually works 6 days a week took 3 days off as a SURPRISE!  He brought me 4 Red Roses on Wednesday after work, one for each year we've been married! We took a road trip to Wimberley and the Blue Hole and had a fantastic lunch. I wore Denim Culottes, a White T and White Trainers.  Shop the look below:

 Asos  Denim Culotte  | White  T Shirt  | White  trainers

Asos Denim Culotte | White T Shirt | White trainers

Shop Road Trip Look: Denim Culottes, White T & Trainers

Plus a fab dinner on THE Anniversary day.  I wore a Tunic dress and Black peep toe fringe booties. Shop the look below:

 Isabel Marant  Tunic Dress  | Black  peep toe booties

Isabel Marant Tunic Dress | Black peep toe booties

Shop Dinner Look: Tunic & Black Booties

He purchased tickets to a surprise show on Friday, I wore a Black lace dress and Tan caged Sandals.  Shop the look below.

 Black Lace  Dress  | Tan  caged sandals

Black Lace Dress | Tan caged sandals

Shop Show Look: Lace Dress & Tan Caged Sandals

We went to an all day event on Saturday. On Sunday we went to church and relaxed a bit.  It was PERFECT and I felt very loved!

And let's not forget the sexy time!

 L'Agent  Babydoll

L'Agent Babydoll

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Tell us in the comments, what would you like for your Anniversary?

Photo: For Love & Lemons

Design Inspiration: The Warm Colors of Cuba

Design Inspiration: The Warm Colors of Cuba